Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Flow Like the Ocean

You want to hear the best sexual metaphor ever?

This comes from David Deida, who wrote an amazing book called The Way of the Superior Man.

Basically he compares feminine essence – which is pure energy, pure love – to the ocean. Feminine energy just flows. It moves in many directions at once. Masculine energy – which is purpose and direction – builds dams, and bridges, and boats. Masculine energy, certain in its direction, allows the feminine to relax, surrender, and just flow.

He says that a happy woman is like the ocean. Her energy is deep, immense, and always changing. She can be calm and serene, but also capable of being wild and destructive. She’s the source of life, but also unpredictable by nature. And like the ocean, she’s always alive, expressive, and beautiful.

But what do most men do? They try to control and contain that flow of energy that is wild, passionate, and unpredictable. They want to analyze, inhibit, and judge. They want to put walls around you and turn this vast ocean into a swimming pool.

Since I know that great sex and great relationships come from deep trust, I’m assured in how I relate to a woman’s energy. My presence is so strong, so stable that I just want to let you be the ocean.

Be deep like the ocean.
Be powerful like the ocean.
Be wild like the ocean.
Unrestrained, unconfined, and uninhibited.

Trust my ability to lead you in the right direction, and I will trust you to just flow like the ocean.

4 Comments:

Blogger Erika said...

Mmmmm... nice.

Let me tell you from recent experience, when a woman flows like the ocean, there is no telling what's going to happen!

March 17, 2009  
Blogger Wim said...

I read David Deida too and I kind of agree... still one thing bothers me in this metaphor.
It seems like the man takes all the responsibility, all the work, while in my opinion sex should be something that is shared.
What's your opinion on that?

March 24, 2009  
Anonymous David said...

Jason write us an article about how you specifically would take a woman from your heart sexually from initial street encounter to dating to sex.

March 24, 2009  
Blogger GoneSavage said...

David-
Sounds like an LR to me. Read this one for a "street encounter":

http://gonesavage.blogspot.com/2005_06_01_archive.html

Wim-

Sex is always shared. To say that the man brings presence and the woman brings radiance is not saying that the experience is somehow not shared. Neither restrict a woman's behavoir nor take responsibility for it. Either way you are extending yourself beyond your realm of control. Just enjoy the moment -- and enjoy her every flavor of radiance -- for as long as it may last.

March 24, 2009  

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