Magnet vs Slingshot
She let her hair hang carelessly. Her clothes were plain and they hid her best features. And she carried herself like she didn’t much like herself.
Later, I met a girl who had much less to work with physically. But I have to tell you, she had a lot of sex appeal.
She dressed to impress. She carried herself with energy. The way she moved and the way she looked at me was very feminine and very sensual. She had this magnetism. I don’t know how else to describe it; I love that magnetic inner beauty.
What is it that causes two people to become attracted?
Is it a feeling from inside? Like a magnet drawing him toward you... like there is this attracting force just pulling you closer to this perfect stranger right in front of you.
Or is it a force from outside? Like a slingshot shooting you toward him... like this propelling force that just says, “I have to get closer, I have to take a chance and see what this person is all about.”
Now I don’t know which one it is, and it probably doesn’t matter. What really matters is that you make the most of this connection now that you have realized that this is someone that you really find attractive.