Monday, November 28, 2005

Montreal: Community Shouts Back


Yesterday I attempted my first Elimi-Date style meet of inviting two girls to the same place at the same time. These are two girls who don’t know each other. I was thinking they’d be talking French to each other and start dissing me or some shit. But damn if it wasn’t fun! These were both professional women too, 23 and 26. I went home with the younger gorgeous one and it was amazing. But…I’m certain that the second girl is still interested! Will do a LR. Good times.

Shouts back:

Jlaix—Good to be on your radar. Rapport and connection and genuine bonding takes me far. I tell girls, “The physical act of sex is mere athletics; I need to make sure you are someone emotionally compatible.”

Papi Chulo—Always good to get your emails. Was there any doubt about the fountain girl? I’m excited to be a “fucking inspiration.” Be adventurous, be curious, be excited about life, live the moment, find out what you really want out of life and what brings you excitement, and go after it wholeheartedly. Do all that and find creative way to convey those traits and characteristics to women.

EffigyC—Scheduling Day2’s and 3’s is a challenge for me because I suck at planning and patience. My prior lays on this trip have almost all been one night stands. Scheduling is a further challenge here in Montreal because I have to do everything through email or payphones. I have actually flaked six times in about four days. Why? I just get caught up in something else. Also, good observation about how I handled the girl who was verbally rejecting me but still pursing my company. I’ve FU’ed this one so many times. It is so easy to eject yourself at the times where it is most important to stay in.

Lowrider—It IS romantic and poetic. She craves this. I’m this seductive stranger that comes into town just to rock her world. The girl I was with last night (1st time)-- I insisted we have candles and wine for things to be perfect, I told her how stunning and gorgeous I found her naked body, we showered and I washed and dried her, fed her food, lots of massage, I fucking made the bed in the morning, left her a cute note, etc, etc. Intensely passionate and romantic. And once I told her that this is the kind of person I am—I had her tell me that she wanted that kind of man and that she deserved that kind of man. Fucking bold qualifying, bust especially effective with HSE alpha girls—my type.

Chaco—I qualify and tease in a playful way. I set expectations. I’m selectively hard to get. If she plays by my rules and standards she will be rewarded beyond her wildest dreams and fantasies. I use a fair amount of c&f to keep the interaction lighthearted and to keep us smiling and laughing together. Nothing abrasive and nothing with thoughts like “I need to build attraction.” Give the romantic talk and erotic talk a try sometime.

Iedub—One piece of advice? Man, I spent 4 days writing the LR when I could have given once piece of advice instead! Ok. Go for what you want with no excuses and no apology and be true to your self. Sorry I can’t be more cryptic right now.

Luff—We share experience man. I have extreme sexual confidence. Don’t know how to convey or teach this. But I know that I have the skill, desire, and intent to bring her the emotional and sexual experience that will blow her away. And then some. I offer her this experience in an open, honest, respectful and discreet way. My agenda is to laugh, smile, enjoy a shared moment, express mutual adoration, and make her feel like the most beautiful women in the world for as long as she may be with me.

Nostromo—I have definitely seen a transformation in my self and this art form since I began the trip. I’m definitely more creative and expressive, more confident, things fall in place with much less effort, the women are more beautiful and our emo-sexual bonds are even more profound. Yes I am very mindful during the interaction. There is a basic structure but I try to make it seamless and allow for spontaneity at the same time. “love life” is a personal motto. It has a dual meaning for me. Thanks for your thoughtful reply.

Blondie—sappy, romantic, and respectful—that’s me! At first I started doing like 6-8 hours a day of approaches and interactions. As it became more naturalized, I followed other touristy pursuits and chatted girls in my natural path. Now I am following so many “dates” that much of my time is allotted for certain women—and I do not pick-up while in the company of a woman 1:1. So to get the initial contacts, I make a conscious effort to pick-up, stay open to tangential pursuits, but I don’t need 6 hours to get solid leads. All this is fluid.

Droots22—always good to hear from you. You always have amazing insights. You sum up the core of me well and it makes my soul smile to realize that someone is seeing *ME* in my posts. Generosity, positivism, heart, and openness. These are my “higher values.” Congruency to intent—to make her smile, laugh, enjoy the moment for what it is, and open up to me in ways that she has never opened up to anyone. Embodiment of the romantic hero—a major motivating motif of my life and lifestyle. Atmosphere-like soul—beautiful, poetic, curious, make her feel as comfortable as she did as a kid on the playground. Time is our only commodity and we’re all more-or-less equal by virtue of our birth. Make the most of your 24 hours and love life.

AjeeOne—Anticipation is a powerful theme that resonates well with most women. Take your time, don’t rush, enjoy the moment, admire what is before you. I love to slow women down, make them notice things that they otherwise would never have noticed, be a cunt-tease, and have them begging for the next level of pleasure and delight. You will love the next LR.